Friday, March 13, 2009

Should we Break Up?


This is the most tricky question. It's like asking a person about what could be winning number combination for tomorrow's lotto draw. No one can be considered an expert in answering this question. But honestly, the person asking the question probably knows the answer but simply needed reassurance of her upcoming big decision. But what if the answer was no? Then we should break up, should we not?

Most people would say "No". You should first work on your relationship. Make sure that you are still holding something there, or there must be something there. You need to answer whether or not you still have something to hold on to or some reason to stay; otherwise, please don't go through all the trouble in the first place.

Nothing good in life ever came for free, and that includes relationships. You have to work on your relationship in order for it to be worthwhile, in order for it to work. After you worked on your relationship and did everything that you can to nurture and cherish it, you can take another critical look at where you are going with it.

Perhaps one thing that should not do is this: Call up your partner and discuss your future together. Don't spring the question out of nowhere. Rather lead up to it over a few days. If you don't feel that you can talk openly to your partner like that, then there's the problem. Whatever makes a relationship without open communication lines?

First work on your relationship before making any decision about its future. That way, you can trust yourself to make the right decision

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