Saturday, January 16, 2010

Showbiz Chika

I just read this article about Kris Aquino and Mayen Austria about an argument concerning James Yap. To wrap things up, Kris and James’ marriage is apparently shaky and that there is this Mayen woman who is a fan of the Purefoods team and that Kris discovered this woman turning to James as her confidant. Then Kris was kind of bothered because she feels it isn’t right for a very single woman to turn to a married woman for an advice, especially about personal stuff, dahil walang hinihingi ang ganitong babae kundi gulo rin. She asserts that when she was having problems in her marriage, is it right to cry on the shoulders of Gabby Concepcion for an advice? So there. Also, this Mayen girl went to the same school with Kris, I am not sure if she was Kris’ classmate in an exclusive school.

Apparently, what gotten Kris angry is that this woman calls James' cellphone for a personal advise? Think about this, would a celebrity give his number to a simple 'fan'? Or is this woman just a fan?

And so I reflected, even to people who are educated and belong to the upper crust where utmost moral values and delicadeza is observed and upheld to a sin, things like this happen. Whatever happened to dignity nowadays? Turning to a committed man or woman, a married man or woman for that matter, for anything is like asking for another thing. What a desperate and despicable act is this, nothing disgusts me more but this. I support Kris statement of “protecting my territory” especially to those who are already married. But married or not, the rule of decency must stand. Otherwise, there will be no fairness in partnerships, in relationships and in life.

Let us all refresh in our mind that Kris has been twice a mistress. She had TWO relationships with married men, namely Philip Salvador and Joey Marquez. Is this her karma? I mean, she has been in the other position before right? Maybe this is what makes her very anxious or fearful of keridas... or 'fans'. And since she is married to a man who is very capable of cheating, she will suffer and carry this burden for all of her life...well that is if she sticks with her marriage contract.

I am not saying that Kris deserves this kind of agony, it's just that... It makes me even more convinced of the saying that goes, "what goes around comes around" or that "do unto others..."

I don't know the title of the song but there is one that I have heard that "love is a battlefield". Oh well, it's like all play, cheating to win or fighting to win. Make your choice. What a crazy life!

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