Our campus minister, who happened to be also my dear Spanish
instructor, told me that being thankful to the littlest things in life will
help me make a 360-degree turn, in terms of my perception of life. Being
thankful for the clean air, for the tap water that reaches our home, for the decent meals I share with my
family in our dinner table, these things are often overlooked when appreciating
life.
Many times, I have complained about the trivial things like
the heat, the difficulties of learning to speak Spanish, NJ’s “toy
installations” in the living room, the sweat and the remains of a good meal on
my collar and pants. I always find it easy to complain about things, which
sometimes makes me feel a bit discontented about my life. Although I have all
the things I needed to thrive, I seem to have acquired a habit of complaining.
This Christmas, I want to be more appreciative and thankful for everything that
God has given me. I am thankful for the love that people has bestowed upon me.
I am thankful for the true friendship that strengthened me. I am thankful for
the people who have wronged me deeply, because they convinced me that somehow
some way, God exacts justice where it is needed be, because in the end, I was
the one who ended up polished and gleaming and happy. Things simply go back to
where they belong. No matter how much difficulty, hardship or pain I have
suffered, what’s important is the person that these things made me become –
stronger, driven, better, though a bit feisty.
I have learned to look at the good things that come out of
the bad things. I have learned to see hope in frustration. I have seen
consequences with offenses. I have seen fairness. For all these things, I am thankful.