In Our Moments or Weakness

Confidence, skills and success. These are three things that we get out of long working hours, hard work, talent and pure luck. Sometimes, it takes years to surpass the trials that come by these three aspects of life. Years of hard work…years of rewarding work…but suddenly…what took years to build….was shattered in a moment…a moment of struggle…a trying moment…a moment of weakness.

It’s frustrating to lose control over the things that we took pride of having…that we took pride of acquiring…Robbing people of the things that once convinced them that they are doing fine, is the harshest thing to do in a person…shattering their confidence can’t compensate for what we are lacking…it will not even help you convince how better YOU are in any aspect of life. The truth is…the endurance of doing such is only driven by an insolent soul...or maybe someone who've lost vision of what compassion and objectivity are.

Who says life is fair…and who are we to make it unfair? Who are we to put people down…we are no better than anybody…we also suck at things occasionally.

It takes love, passion and enthusiasm to stay committed to our tasks…yet occasionally, the flow of nature will go against the direction that we are heading…making it harder to move on and go forward…testing our endurance…

Succumbing to the trials that occasionally come into our lives can easily convince us to give up…making us quit is the idea of trials anyway…trials define our substance…trials exist to test our character and ideals…whoever stays…whoever survives…will be rewarded in his own rights.

In this life…it doesn’t matter how vast our weaknesses are…but how strong our strengths are…our moments of weakness makes us realize where our strengths lie…our weaknesses may shame us…but our courage to get up and pull things together will always bring us back on track.

Embracing Love

It’s really comforting when you have something to hold on in a relationship. Whatever trouble may come, it’ll just pass because it can never shatter a strong foundation that has forged the love between you and your man. The thing is that, complications are things that we only put upon ourselves. While people may say their opinions about how things go between the two of you, what matters is that the ties that keeps you together continues to reinforce whatever reasons you have for staying together.

Nothing can shatter a love that has perished a number of storms…and people who threaten its very existence. When things get out of hand, step back and reflect. Think of the more important things that will still convince you that every effort to save the relationship is worth it. Although problems and situations may strike our ego and pride…compromises must be made just to save whatever love is left…love stays…love survives…and only when you give in to reason, shall end everything that comes with it.

Feeling distraught about every problem that comes with our relationships means that we question our love…we question our quest to move on from every mistake and every trial that we step out of. What’s important is that we are sure of this person…no distance can change everything that the two of you have worked so hard for. No person can ever replace or compensate for every faults and shortcoming that you discover that your partner has. Nothing can replace each other…that is, if love is true and unconditional.

Once in a while, however smart we are, we do stupid things to save our relationships. For me, it’s not normal. Rather, it’s the greatest way of experiencing life…that you are living the realities of life. Threading every emotion and problem or overcoming life's situations will only be possible if you give in to love. Love never fails to make the best of what we have. Although love can destroy us, love is what makes us grow and become better people. Love makes us explore…love may hurt…but love is what brings everything good in life…and everything good, comes with hard work.

There’s no better love story than our own. If you are destined for each other, then nothing can separate the two of you. To make relationships work, you have to jump over the barriers or complications created by age, time, distance, character, money, mistakes, reason, raw emotions…and situations that makes us forget of our PRIDE. I believe that there’s no success in love for it is a continuous process…a continuous struggle to keep each other and make something good blossom out of each other’s character. Love is a continuous process...because if you end trying…life is bland.